
A few days ago I had a wonderful lunch meeting with an editor of a local magazine. Over a slew of emails deciding on what time and day would best suit the both of us, she suggested we meet for Thai food. That’s when I knew I was going to really like her. And the moment she asked for her Tom Yum soup to be extra-spicy, I knew we were going to be best friends! Lunch was delightful, and the conversation we shared over fresh salad rolls, Pad Thai and Fried Bananas with ice cream was simply exceptional. Being the food editor of the magazine, she undoubtedly shared my obsession with all things culinary. We bonded over our favourite childhood snacks (who knew that ketchup on toast with a dash of pepper was not something that only weird ‘ol me enjoyed! I know, I know, it sounds like a hideous combination; but in my defence, I was 14, breaking out in pimples and was going through a phase where anything out of the ordinary was thought to be “in”…), how we usually plan our vacations based on places that are mostly know for their food more than anything else, and our dislike for broccoli! It was going great until she asked me the dreaded question - when and how did I learn to cook?
I can’t even begin to count the amount of times I’ve been faced with that very question. If only I had a penny for each time I was asked, well, I guess I’d have a lot of pennies by now! As far as I can remember, I actually started cooking when I moved out of home for college; the food there sucked, and since I had an inbuilt kitchen in my room, I figured I could at least try and salvage my hunger and save some money in the process. But I wouldn’t be lying if I said that wasn’t really when I learned to cook. My mom didn’t think much of having me and sister learn to cook the real way. Sure, she’d often have us help her at dinner time by setting the table, making the salad, frying puris while she rolled them out splendidly, and of course, doing the dreaded dishes once everyone was fed. There were days during holidays and weekends, when I would spend time talking to her in the kitchen while she prepped meals. In the process I often took note of how she added one ingredient after the other, roasted spices in dry heat to bring out their aroma, and took special care to avoid any extra gravy while layering Biryani. Little did I know that these special sessions we shared would one day be the basis of my career.
Truth be told, I can’t really point an exact time frame in my life when I actually learned to cook. It kind of just happened, maybe it was always there somewhere. In fact, I’m on a constant learning curve. Each day I educate myself with something new - be it how to make the perfect hard-boiled egg without having the shells stick to it, or that soft, delicious naans could actually be made at home in a flash. Without a tandoor. Who knew! What I can tell you honestly though is that the one thing I actually learned to cook was fried egg. My mom decided to teach me so that I could make my own breakfast without her having to leave the laundry halfway to feed me. It wasn’t a fun experience at all. I must’ve had thrown away a couple dozen before I could manage to crack them just right without thrusting my thumb in and breaking the yolk. But it was all for a good cause. How else could I have made myself this delicious Egg Sambal had it not been for that fateful day.
So, now I ask you - when did you learn to cook?
FRIED EGG SAMBAL
Prep time: 10 min | Cooking time: 20 min | Serves: 4Ingredients:
4 large eggs
1 medium onion, finely sliced
1 large tomato, finely chopped
1 tbsp tomato paste
2-3 large garlic cloves, finely chopped
1/2 tsp red chilli powder
1 tsp coriander powder
1/4 tsp turmeric powder
3 tbsp light cooking oil
salt & pepper, to tasteDirections:
Heat about 1 tsp of oil in a non-stick pan (Use one large enough to cook the entire dish, since it makes it much easier to clean up. Personally I prefer using a wok to get perfectly round fried eggs.), and fry egg one after the other seasoned lightly with salt and pepper, adding in more oil if needed. Set aside.
Add in remaining oil in the pan and saute garlic and onions till soft and lightly browned. Add in spices and fry for a few seconds.
Throw in chopped tomatoes, season with salt and fry for a few minutes. Add in tomato paste and continue to fry, breaking up tomatoes till it starts to dry out and give out oil from the sides.
Slowly slide in the fried eggs, and carefully mix them with the tomato mixture to coat, without breaking the egg. Allow to heat through for a few minutes and serve warm.






July 23rd, 2008
I learnt it after marriage. Was never a kitchen gal, before. Always been book worm and a picky eater.
After I started experimenting and learnt cooking, I am now a foodie. My daughter was a picky eater too, when she was very young. Then doc suggested I show her and talk to her while cooking and (pretend)take her help. I did that and we also loved to watch food TV together. Our favourite time together is watching food tv together. She is now 6 yrs old, but has improved a lot in trying new foods and in enjoying food.
July 23rd, 2008
That looks so good!! My husband is an eggetarian so any new egg recipe is bookmarked. Love the way you thought of garnishing with spring onions
July 24th, 2008
that looks so good. really. i’ve never heard of this, but i’m such a huge egg-etarian that i simply must try it. thanks.
July 24th, 2008
This one too is so good man. Its awesome to go through your website and I keep trying out the dishes.
July 24th, 2008
Hi, Really lovely colour.. I have to try this.. such a simple and nice recipe too.. I learnt to cook quite early, during school days when I was 13 or something.. nothing great..first dish was cabbage fry. Turned out well.. after that small things, but my mother is an excellent cook and I was inspired…:-) I thank her for that! Like this post..
July 24th, 2008
That looks awesome!
Would love to know a good, generic sambal recipe, if you have any.
Thanks!
July 25th, 2008
My experience has been similar to yours. I think I imbibed a lot watching my mother cook but I didn’t know it at that time. My mom didn’t want me to be stuck in the kitchen, so she never encouraged me to learn cooking. She would always say “it will come to you later.” Which is exactly what happened. I got married, moved to the U.S. and got really tired of eating the same daal and mixed veg subzi hubby used to make all the time. So, started experimenting and realized that cooking came naturally to me. Without learning ‘officially’, I could remember in detail how my mom made her sambaar or rasam, her specific mannerisms in the kitchen, her way of cutting veggies etc. And wonder of wonders, I realized I actually enjoyed cooking. Having looked back since.
July 26th, 2008
Hi Meena! I make a Parsi dish where the veggies are cooked first and the eggs then go in, as individual bulls’ eyes. Where I live, I don’t get tomato paste, and I don’t want to buy an entire pack of tomato puree for 1 tbsp, so what do I do? Just increase the tomato a bit?
July 27th, 2008
When I moved in with my boyfriend, now husband, during my masters. It was a nightmare with both of being rubbish in the kitchen and I missed ghar ka khana sooooo much. Similar to yours I guess, but my mother then wasn’t a big fan of the kitchen. She seems to have taken an interest only in the last few years!!
July 27th, 2008
Hey Meena….loved the pic…will try the recipe soon….I remember learning basic recipes such as tea, omlette and plain toor dal from my mom before marriage…but a propah (lol) cook , only after marriage. Btw, I am Meena as well.
July 28th, 2008
Wow that looks way too tempting…love the fiery colour!
July 29th, 2008
Your sambal looks fabulous, great colour too. I love spice too - extra hot for me too please! I first started to cook at university but back then I really wasn’t up to much. my speciality was a risotto and anything else that basically involved one pot. I also had a bad case of ‘adding a bit of this and that’ which often led to terrible results - at least I learnt what didn’t work! I think I really started cooking about 8 years ago now, while living in Oxford, it just snowballed from there and there was no stopping me!
July 30th, 2008
I can have this for breakfast, lunch, and dinner! Great-looking eggs and I love that they’re HOT!
July 30th, 2008
yes. yes. yes!
July 30th, 2008
It looks amazing!
July 30th, 2008
That looks awesome. Bet it tasted good, too.
I guess I really started learning how to cook when I was in college.
July 30th, 2008
Love your blog!
I searched the site for your naan recipe without luck.
Would you be so kind as to share it?
thanks and keep up the great work.
July 31st, 2008
Hi Meena, Awesome dish ! Very tempting..I love to browse through food blogs everyday for different recipes and I cannot thank bloggers enough for helping me everydayto comeup with fabulous food, everytime I try something new from a blog. I have a small problem though. I had kidney stones and so advised of avoiding tomatoes all together. Its really really hard to find recipes which are equally delicious without tomatoes. I wonder when this vegetable got in to serious cooking and when did people start incorporating tomatoes in their everyday cooking.. pls point out some recipes which would be helpful for people like me? thanks much.
Hi Anitha, you can find many recipes on my list that do not use tomatoes - most of them being vegetarian. Have alook at the recipe list for some new ideas. Thanks for stopping by!
August 5th, 2008
Wow…this looks great! I am sure it tastes awesome! I learnt cooking after my 10th board exams. I had about 3 mths holidays,so I learnt everyday dishes during that time. And then after i got married I learnt to cook some others and still learning
August 6th, 2008
I just love the colors! This is something I could eat every day…rice, eggs and lot of wonderful spices!
Thanks White! I could eat this everyday too, simple, delicious comfort food!
August 11th, 2008
Egg Sambal looks really good. Never made it before, but i’m so sure i’ll love it.
I’m sure you will Kate, do let me know when you try it!
August 12th, 2008
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August 17th, 2008
This I am very eager to try. I only recently started eating a bit of eggs and am now exploring different possibilities. Love the presentation
Thanks!
August 25th, 2008
eggtarian ! lol, now I know how to call my passion for eggs..
) thanks!
I am learning how to cook (decent meals
August 27th, 2008
I made this last night and it was awesome! I garnished with coriander instead of spring onions. It was very pretty and delicious. Thanks for this and all your other wonderful recipes!
Glad you enjoyed it Ramya!
September 16th, 2008
I love egg sambal. Have you tried the deep-fried-hard-boiled egg with sambal before? They are even better that way!
September 19th, 2008
hi i just want to say thanks to you.Because with the help of your post now even i can cook.
October 27th, 2008
I have come back again and again to your site because I love the variety of dishes you offer, the simplicity of the directions and the photos. Really a good blog!
October 30th, 2008
I learned to cook FROZEN food by the age of…10? Actually cooking eggs, I learned when I was 11. And guess what? I’m still 11! xD I’m taking a cooking course right now, and love food, yet am so skinny! I guess food loving came to me in the womb, while my mother watched the food network
After the story of my life, I want to thank you for all the amazing recipes you’ve posted. Now if I can only get my mom to let me cook them….xDDD
November 19th, 2008
I first learned to cook in my 20s, although I think I used to be a better cook than I am now. I first became a foodie when I got a book “Great Restaurants of the World” as a child. I don’t know why I never thought to go to culinary school. Oh well, the hours would suck anyway.
September 15th, 2009
Meena, I stumbled to your blog through Mallika’s. Amazing pic of the egg sambal and the other recipes. Real delighful reading. I am so glad I found you.
As far as cooking is concerned, I learnt in a situation similar to yours. I lived with two other girls during my under-grad, one who almost burned the apt once and the other who didn’t know how to hold a knife straight. I had to take control and dominate the kitchen to salvage my clothes and books.
Later I moved in with my boyfriend, now husband, who’s a hard core foodie. I love cooking and it helps me destress.
October 7th, 2009
wow, this looks delicious, spicy and hot, perfect!!!!!
October 13th, 2009
Hi Meena, The pic looks really yummy… Just one question though… You are talking about Frying the eggs individllay… Does that mean making Bull’ eye of each egg???I mean 4 half fried eggs? I would try this recipe…:) Your blog is interesting… Thanks…
November 5th, 2009
I learnt cooking only after my marriage. I was never really interested in kitchen/cooking or even purchasing vegetables. But now I am improving.
The picture of the dish itself is very very mouth watering. Nice pick of words to describe recipes as well as very cooked dishes captured in a beautiful manner.
April 22nd, 2010
I learned to cook from a young age as my parents are both culinary lovers as well. When I was in Indonesia I went to a restaurant specializing in various sambal chili sauces to be eaten with eggs. The garlic chili sauce I orders was spectacular eaten with the egg and looked similar to this recipe. Looks delicious!
November 9th, 2010
Delicious again!! thanks Meena
March 7th, 2011
hi..
I am definitely going to try this recipe… looks awesome for an egg lover like me..
June 3rd, 2011
Could you please tell me what exactly “fried eggs” are?
Is that like making an omelette of each of the egss? Would love to try this recipe. Thanks