What to Cook: Distressed over Dinner

Every now and then I emails from readers requesting me for a particular recipe. Some I’m quite familiar with and readily try and post about. Then are those requests of dishes that for the life of me, I had no idea even existed. I especially love these email where I get a chance to learn about something new. And then there are a few mails wherein I’m asked to help plan a party, with a fully designed menu. Now these are mails that I especially enjoy! That’s not to say that I don’t appreciate those lovely thank you notes I get from fabulous readers who’ve tried my recipes and taken the time to send me feedback. You all have a special place in my heart, so keep ‘em coming folks! And just in case you have this silly notion that I don’t value what you have to say since I haven’t responded to your email/comment, then please don’t think that way. All I can say is that it’s hard for me to juggle all the things I tend to do at the same time. Most times I have more on my plate than I can conviniently handle, due to which I have to miss out on responding to your lovely words.Now, getting back to those emails on menu planning, yes, I just love those! Part of the excitement must come from my obessively complusive behaviour to always host the perfect party, and the rest I’m sure derives itself from my need to entertain on a regular basis. Yes, as Hubby Dear has time and again stated, I have a disease. And the only way to live with it is to accept the fact that I need to have frends and family over on a regular basis who I can feed and smother with goodies from my kitchen.
One such request arrived a few days ago from a regular reader of mine. This young lady always has something smart to discuss on food, and I’ve always enjoyed the conversations that we cultivated through our web correspondence. So I was highly surprised to see this frantic email from her sitting in my inbox:
Dear Meena,
Me and my girlfriends get together every month for our Book Club Meeting. Each month, the selected host designs a meal inspired by the book we are currently reading. This month, the task of hosting the dinner has come on me. We have been reading Kiran Desai’s Inheritance of Loss, and I’d really love to serve a simple meal of everyday Indian food that you would serve to family and friends on a regular basis. While I’m used to making the customary party food like Butter Chicken and Chicken Tikka, this time I wanted to go for something more wholesome and comforting. I’ve promised the girls a meal they’ll remember forever and now I’m practically kicking myself for doing that. The meeting is in a week’s time, and I have no clue where to begin. HELP!
- Distressed over Dinner
Dear Distressed over Dinner,
I know sometimes cooking a simple meal for friends may seem appalling. No matter how hard we try, we always seem to go a bit overboard when entertaining our dearest friends. Maybe it’s the desire to impress them and keep them coming for more. Or maybe it’s our need to show a little flair and style that’s easily missed in our everday meals. But that surely doesn’t mean that we have to torture ourselves over the stove, cooking a 3-course meal. Sometimes, the simplest food can also be the best and most appreciated. I’ve designed for you a menu which I think would simply floor your guests. Each dish is simple to prepare and a delight to eat. Trust me, lay all this out on the table and watch them lick their fingers. And I promise, the next time you host a party, they’ll surely want to be a part of it.
- Meena
The menu I’ve designed for this Book Club Meeting consists some of the classic favourites of every Indian home. The preparation methods are simple, cooking times are quick, and most if not all of them can easily be done a few days ahead of time. I’d suggest leaving the rice for the very last minute to ensure a wonderful aroma to fill your home, but of course, you could always have it ready before hand and re-heat in the microwave.
- Dahiwali Chicken Curry
- Methi Egg Curry (recipe follows)
- Dahi Bhindi
- Matar Pulao
- Alu Fry
There you go DD, hope your friends will love this one! I would definitely go very light on appetizers, maybe just chips and dips, since you’ll want to save enough of space for the main meal. For dessert I’d suggest a tub of traditional Indian ice cream called Kulfi, which can be easily picked up at any Indian grocery store, and from what I recently noticed, many of our regular ones as well.
Anyone else out there need help planning a fabulous Indo-inspired meal? Well then, what are you waiting for, drop me a line!
METHI ANDA CURRY
EGG CURRY WITH FENUGREEK LEAVES
Prep time: 20 min | Cooking time: 15 min | Serves: 4
4 large
1 medium-sized
1 large
1 cup
1-2
1 tbsp
2-3
3-4
3-4
1 tsp
1/4 tsp
1/4 tsp
1/2 tsp
1/2 tsp
2 tbspeggs, hard boiled and shelled
onion, finely chopped
tomato, chopped
fresh fenugreek leaves, chopped
green chillies, finely chopped
plain yoghurt, beaten
cardamom pods
cloves
black peppercorns
cumin seeds
red chilli powder
turmeric powder
coriander powder
cumin powder
light cooking oil
salt, to taste
water, as neededSAUTE cumin seeds, cardamom, cloves and black peppercorns in hot oil till they start to sizzle and pop. Add onions, and fry till lightly browned.
ADD in tomatoes, green chillies, fenugreek leaves, salt and spices, and cook till tomatoes pulp and starts to give out oil from the sides.
STIR in beaten yoghurt and about a cup of water, and allow it to come to a boil. Slit boiled eggs halfway and add it to the gravy. Let simmer covered for a few minutes till eggs get infused with all the flavours.
Special Note: My monthly column, Indian 101, has finally begun in the food section, Nosh, of The Mississauga News. It came out last Wednesday and can be read here. The next installment comes on next month, on the 23rd of May. But of course, you can read it here on my site as well. Have a great weekend folks, and happy cooking!







April 20th, 2007 12:51
Your recipes and pictures have that special professional touch. Just love surfing your site. I tried your ginger chili prawns, it was so good. Planning to cook somemore from here.
April 20th, 2007 21:22
Isn’t it wonderful when you can help someone… I am sure that DD is deeply appreciative. Please let us know (when she emails you again
) what her book-club friends thought of the meal.
It sure is, Cynthia, I’ll surely let you all know what she and her friends thought of it!
April 21st, 2007 06:03
Dear DD I can say that Dahiwalla Chicken is great!! ahve cooked it twice with success each time! All thanks to Meena! the menu looks good to u! Do let us know how the meet goes
April 21st, 2007 11:14
Hi,
What a wonderful and mouth watering recipe…..:-)…..Keep up the good work..I really enjoy reading your blog…
Cheers,
Rashmi.
April 21st, 2007 11:16
Hi Again..One request ..Can you post some dry veggies recipes which i can take for lunch?….Thanks a lot.
Rashmi.
April 21st, 2007 16:26
Yum! Never tried egg curry w/ methi before…added to my list of “to cook”
April 22nd, 2007 10:32
So sweet of you to help people with designing menus for events. I am sure these people will always be delighted with your recipes.
Thanks Sim, talk about a party and I’m all set with my notes to design it. Nothing better than menu planning, don’tcha think?
April 23rd, 2007 10:55
what a great recipe, meena. and your insights of menu planning are very useful indeed.
Thanks Bee.
April 23rd, 2007 17:54
Meena, I made your Daliwali Curry Chicken last night and it was delish!!! I was going to make your cauliflower recipe too but didn’t have time so I just added it into the DCC instead it it was wonderful! =)
Thanks GB, so glad you enjoyed it!
April 24th, 2007 14:25
Hi Meena:
This seems like a real keeper - delicious, simple to concoct, comfort food - definitely trying it this weekend!
BTW - I notice that some of your recipes are missing from the archives - like vada pav - and even this one (more I think, but I can’t rmemeer which ones). Someone who has not been reading your blog since the begninning will miss out on some the most pleasing delicacies that you have on offer, and that would be SUCH a pity, so maybe you should look at updating your archives;-) Just a thought.
Aarti.
Hi Aarti, you should really try this recipe, the methi adds that extra depth of flavour to a simple egg curry. The reason you don’t see some of my earlier recipes is because I’m revamping those with more delicious looking photographs to entice your palate even more. Will definitely link to them once I update a few posts. thanks so much for visiting, and for your precious feedback!
April 24th, 2007 14:40
Hi, I like your blog very much. Happy Blogging
April 25th, 2007 14:17
Hi there! I have been enjoying your blog for a month or so. I am gluten intolerant and wonder if you might know of any traditional naan recipes that might not include wheat flour. I miss naan! Your photos always look so delicious! Thanks for posting your recipes. I am going to try one out this eve!
Ginger
Hi Ginger, thanks so much for dropping by. Unfortunately, I really have never tried making Naan myself, and have absolutely no idea how to go about suggesting making it glutten-free. I’ll try and see if anyone I know has any tips to spare, and I’ll surely share them with you. Let me know what recipes you try, would love to hear your feedback. Thanks again!
April 26th, 2007 15:36
I love stopping by your site, I always learn something new… I’m very new to cooking anything Indian.
Thanks Monika, I do hope you follow my Intro to Indian series, I’m sure it’ll help you in learning the basic of Indian food. Watch out for the next installment coming out real soon!
April 29th, 2007 14:52
Meena, how about something sweet, something spicy with few basic spices ? Malaysian Ayam Masak Merah (Red Cooked Chicken), I just posted this, and everytime me and some girl friends get together, we can’t have enough of it. By the way, I love menu planning too, sometimes we forget that simple dishes makes the wow factor
Ooh, I simply love Ayam masak Merah, can’t wait for you to post the recipe as a special request from me!
That’s so true MW, the simplest dishes are the just the BEST!
May 4th, 2007 09:27
I added your blog to my list of Food Blogs to visit well over a year ago, and I come back to visit once in a while to read your stories and I have even tried a recipe or two. I just have to say how wonderful the site looks and how happy I am that you have a column now and are catering! Wish I lived in Canada! Best of Luck in all your endeavours, and great job!
Thanks so much Willow, hope to see you more often here.
May 8th, 2007 20:53
Wow, what a neat combination. Thanks for the recipe!