Cooking for Mr. Okra

Dahi Bhindi (Okra in Yoghurt)
Growing up in a household where vegetables were always given high preference over it’s non-vegetarian counterparts, I wasn’t too happy. Like any rebellious 12 year old, I despised anything green and considered “healthy” in my Mom’s dictionary. As a spunky 17 year old starting fresh at college and living in a hostel miles away from the caring tender fingers that caressed Mom’s cooking, I had grudgingly succumbed myself to the meals catered at the campus. To my added disappointment, not only did the food lack in flavour and eye appeal, it also somehow failed in providing me with the limited array of greens that I actually thought were edible, to say the least.
Somehow, between the humdrum of a busy schedule and an even busier college life, one could easily manage chugging down meals without a moments notice. That is, until one gets the same dish - mind you, same tasteless flavour and all, for five consecutive meals. Yes, five! And that was where I decided to draw the line and gift myself with a pan or two, and some basic starters to a home cooked meal. The dreaded dish if you wish to know, was okra.
It’s not hard to believe that I graduated through cooking for myself for the next few years without so much as a slight glance at the okra. Never was there a shopping spree through the fresh produce section where I stopped and smelt the darned vegetable. And never had it, for as long as I can remember, ever taken a place in my cart. That is, of course, until I met the then would-be Hubby Dear. Like a sudden twist of fate in any classic crime story (the crime here was of course committed against the okra, damn you okra!), on one of our first food conversations, Hubby Dear had candidly confessed to having a secret love affair with the dreaded pod.
Now what was a poor little girl like me supposed to do! I’d heard endless tales of how a man’s heart could easily be won through the deeds done for his stomach. Seeing that I had promised to cook him his favourite meal didn’t make my case any easier. So there I was trudging through the fresh produce section, not only smelling, but also picking my first pound of okra, and giving it a place in my cart. And like anyone gifted with an unwanted pet that’s impossible to give away, you accept your kismet and just get used to it. And hopefully eventually, but surely, you’ll learn to love it.
DAHI BHINDI
OKRA COOKED IN YOGHURT
Prep time: 10 min | Cooking time: 20 min | Serves: 2
15-20
1 medium
1/2 cup
1 tsp
1/2 tsp
1/4 tsp
a pinch
1/4 tsp
2 tbspfresh okra, diced into 1/2-inch slices
onion, thinly sliced
plain yoghurt, beaten
cumin seeds
red chilli powder
turmeric powder
dried ginger powder
garam masala powder
light cooking oil
salt, to tasteHEAT oil in a non-stick pan and saute cumin seeds till they begin to sizzle. Add onions and fry for 2-3 minutes on medium-high heat till transparent. Add in okra and cover cook for a few minutes till done, tossing occasionally.
ADD red chilli powder, turmeric, ginger powder and salt, and stir-fry for a few minutes. Slowly stir in beaten curd forming a smooth gravy base.
SPRINKLE garam masala and cook covered for another minute or two. Serve warm with a side of Dal and Rotis.



February 5th, 2007 18:50
Hey Meera. Came across your blog by chance and loved it! I’m an Indian too and I’ve been here in the States for about 7 years. I’m a total foodie and almost went to culinary school, but it didn’t pan out (no pun intended!) I wanted to start my own food blog but staying in the dorms is not conducive to whipping up gourmet dishes and posting pictures but eh…what can one do. I do however, try some of your recipes at my friends place and they turn out fabulously! Where are you based? Looking forward to your posts! =)
Esha
Hey Meera, don’t let that stop you. I’ll look forward to the creation of your blog! I’m based in Ontario, Canada. so which recipes did you try out?
February 5th, 2007 23:59
Lovely side dish…. I sometimes add about 1/2 to 1 tsp of besan in the curd while beating it and then add it to the okra in the end…… cook for two mins and thats it….. it adds a nice texture to it.
I like the new look of your blog.
Thanks Coffee!
February 6th, 2007 09:46
That was funny. In our home it is the exact opposite. I am the okra lover and Satish hates it. Whenever I buy okra, he thinks that entitles him to buy something that he shouldn’t be really eating. Men!!
Hehe… tell me about it Gini! Men! ;)
February 6th, 2007 21:34
Hey this looks very delicious.The colour everything looks perfect and divine.Thanks for sharing.
Your most welcome Soumya!
February 6th, 2007 21:44
I do like okra but it’s slimy for my stir fry. Cooking it as a stew is ok since the “slime” is what is required to thicken the stew. The first (and last) time I cooked okra, it was simple, fried with chilli paste. Maybe I can give okra a second chance
Allowing it to cook covered for a few minutes before adding the spices definitely gets rid of all the stickiness TF. Try it this way and let me know how you like it.
February 7th, 2007 04:09
I love okra! okra tempura, okra stir fry, okra in clear broths, okra in assam fish, okra in fish head curry, you name it, i’ll eat it! yum!
I’m sure you’ll enjoy this then, Evinrude. do give it a try.
February 7th, 2007 12:33
Beautiful. I love your site.
Thanks Scott!
February 7th, 2007 16:24
hey, Great Blog !
Thanks Gilad!
February 7th, 2007 16:46
Thanks for stopping by on by blog. You site is beautiful. I have okra in my fridge, I will have to put your recipe to use. I’m so jealous, I need to find time to cook.
Well then, this would be perfect for you BC, quick and delicious! Let me know how you like it.
February 7th, 2007 18:58
mr. okra is one lucky dude. have added you to our bloglist.
Mr. Okra definitely agrees with you Jai & Bee. thanks for adding me!
February 8th, 2007 01:14
Somehow fate has its way. i love mutton biryani & my husband detests it. i love sambar, rasam and he does not touch it… Lovely write up
February 8th, 2007 01:47
Meena hi !! yes, love okras in both curries and stir frys
I tend to make full use of this vege in the summer, hmm..perhaps I should start early. By the way, do you guys call this drumsticks too ? Thx for sharing 
February 8th, 2007 02:28
Hi Meenakshi,
Thanks for your nice comments posted on my blog.
You have a very interesting blog will surely be visiting again..
Thanks,
Arch
February 8th, 2007 07:48
Dear Meena,
Your recipes are not only simple and easy but very interesting too. Best of all I love reading your articles that go along with the recipe. Keep up the good work.
Kind regards,
Sandra
February 9th, 2007 02:36
Hello Meena! I love what you’ve done with the place - so bright and airy. Thanks for this okra recipe too! I bought a big bag the other day and just fried them up. They were so good that we ended up eating them by the handful and they didn’t even make it to dinner. I was thinking of what else to do with them. Now I know!
Hey Esther, let me know how it turned out, would love to hear your views on the recipe. Thanks for dropping by!
February 10th, 2007 19:23
I do love okra…thanks for sharing….great recipe…~smile~
Thanks Dilip!
February 14th, 2007 21:22
Tried this…its delicious…thanks for recipe.
February 18th, 2007 21:41
I think this is my favourite indian style dish! I never made it, we always buy it, but it’s just soooooo good!! I will have to give yours a try!
March 4th, 2007 23:06
Hi Meena,
I came across your blog a few weeks ago…i’m a beginner to indian cooking…having just moved out from home. This was the first recipe I tried and it was absolutely fabulous!
Thanks for all your recipes…I’m definitely gonna try lots more from your blog!
March 6th, 2007 06:43
Dear Meena,
Your food blog is very nice with wonderful pictures and recipes. I’ve tried Dahi Bhindi. Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to your posts
March 23rd, 2007 15:46
Hi Meena,
Seeing the pic , felt like picking it out of the screen and start eating it. It looks awesome and am sure tastes awesome too. Can’t wait to give it a try, will let you know how it turned out!!
TGIF,
J
February 24th, 2009 15:33
Hi, i saw ur blog today and got bowled over. I like ur style and presentation. Looking forward for more.
November 9th, 2010 05:02
In my house …Okra is everybody’s favorite ..so this recipe gonna hit my kitchen tonight…Thanx Meena..
March 15th, 2011 06:33
Hey,
The dish looks yummy. I am going to try it out today!!! Thanks for the recipe